How can I use this extra time at home to support my fussy eater?
Fussy Eating & Food Refusal
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Iโll gladly be a broken record with this one- but I canโt emphasise the importance & benefit enough of sitting together & role modelling eating, feeding skills & behaviours! Itโs essential in managing childrenโs eating & there seems to be more time for meals together at the moment, so make hay whilst the sun shines! โฃ
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With less opportunity to shop & more careful planning with meals why not try to get into a habit of making just one main family meal at least once per day (rather than everyoneโs favourites!) – this combines family meal benefits (above) with experience & exposure (below)โฃ
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Get consistency with parent & family approach to managing feedingโฃ
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Has it become apparent that there is good cop & bad cop when it comes to your LOs eating? One of you topping up with preferred foods or chasing around with a spoon due to worries about food refusal & the other trying to stick with a clear routine ? I hear this one a lot, so use this time to get a consistent, unified response, plan & approach to feeding so your child has consistency (which is key to change)โฃ
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Maybe youโve had to deviate from your usual essentials, or have struggled to get your childโs preferred foods. Donโt panic! Use this opportunity for EXPOSURE to less familiar foods-yes they might be rejected & not eaten but repeated exposure to food is often essential on the journey to acceptance (which may take 15-20+ exposures- but you have to start somewhere!). Exposure isnโt just eating either – remember itโs looking, touching, smelling…using all those senses we have are essential for feeding!โฃ
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Take away some of the pressure of eating less familiar foods but allowing children to gain experience with foods away from the dinner table. Activities like; drawing foods, watching cookery TV (excuse for Saturday kitchen), cooking, baking, chopping, playing ready steady cook, growing fruit or veg in pots.
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Thereโs no doubt itโs a stressful time at the moment but lots of parents have told me how useful itโs also been for reflection. Reflecting on your approach at the dinner table can be hard & shouldnโt be judgemental (but it can be beneficial), ask yourself questions like:โฃ
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โ๐๐ฐ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ค๐ฉ๐ช๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ค๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต ๐ฐ๐ณ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ ๐ต๐ณ๐บ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ค๐ช๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ณ force?โโฃ
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โ๐๐ฐ ๐ ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ง๐ฆ๐ณ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ง๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฅ๐ด ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ค๐ข๐ถ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ ๐ธ๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฃ๐ฆ ๐ด๐ถ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐บ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ด๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ?โโฃ
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โ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ข๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ข๐ด๐ต ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ ๐ข๐ค๐ต๐ถ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ง๐ง๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฅ…โโฃ
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โ ๐๐ฎ ๐ ๐ถ๐ด๐ถ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ค๐ข๐ญ๐ฎ & ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ข๐น๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ข๐ฃ๐ญ๐ฆ?โโฃ
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Lucy Upton RD – Dietetic Lead