How can I use this extra time at home to support my fussy eater?

Fussy Eating & Food Refusal

๐”๐’๐„ ๐„๐•๐„๐‘๐˜ ๐Ž๐๐๐Ž๐‘๐“๐”๐๐ˆ๐“๐˜ ๐“๐Ž ๐„๐€๐“ ๐“๐Ž๐†๐„๐“๐‡๐„๐‘โฃ
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Iโ€™ll gladly be a broken record with this one- but I canโ€™t emphasise the importance & benefit enough of sitting together & role modelling eating, feeding skills & behaviours! Itโ€™s essential in managing childrenโ€™s eating & there seems to be more time for meals together at the moment, so make hay whilst the sun shines! โฃ
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๐Ž๐๐„ ๐Œ๐„๐€๐‹โฃ

With less opportunity to shop & more careful planning with meals why not try to get into a habit of making just one main family meal at least once per day (rather than everyoneโ€™s favourites!) – this combines family meal benefits (above) with experience & exposure (below)โฃ
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๐๐„ ๐€ ๐“๐„๐€๐Œโฃ
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Get consistency with parent & family approach to managing feedingโฃ
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Has it become apparent that there is good cop & bad cop when it comes to your LOs eating? One of you topping up with preferred foods or chasing around with a spoon due to worries about food refusal & the other trying to stick with a clear routine ? I hear this one a lot, so use this time to get a consistent, unified response, plan & approach to feeding so your child has consistency (which is key to change)โฃ
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๐„๐—๐๐Ž๐’๐”๐‘๐„ ๐“๐Ž ๐๐„๐—ช ๐…๐Ž๐Ž๐ƒ๐’ โฃ
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Maybe youโ€™ve had to deviate from your usual essentials, or have struggled to get your childโ€™s preferred foods. Donโ€™t panic! Use this opportunity for EXPOSURE to less familiar foods-yes they might be rejected & not eaten but repeated exposure to food is often essential on the journey to acceptance (which may take 15-20+ exposures- but you have to start somewhere!). Exposure isnโ€™t just eating either – remember itโ€™s looking, touching, smelling…using all those senses we have are essential for feeding!โฃ
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๐„๐—๐๐„๐‘๐ˆ๐„๐๐‚๐„ ๐—ช๐ˆ๐“๐‡ ๐…๐Ž๐Ž๐ƒ๐’ ๐€๐—ช๐€๐˜ ๐…๐‘๐Ž๐Œ ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐“๐€๐๐‹๐„ โฃ
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Take away some of the pressure of eating less familiar foods but allowing children to gain experience with foods away from the dinner table. Activities like; drawing foods, watching cookery TV (excuse for Saturday kitchen), cooking, baking, chopping, playing ready steady cook, growing fruit or veg in pots.

๐‘๐„๐…๐‹๐„๐‚๐“ ๐Ž๐ ๐˜๐Ž๐”๐‘ ๐’๐“๐‘๐„๐’๐’ ๐‹๐„๐•๐„๐‹๐’โฃ
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Thereโ€™s no doubt itโ€™s a stressful time at the moment but lots of parents have told me how useful itโ€™s also been for reflection. Reflecting on your approach at the dinner table can be hard & shouldnโ€™t be judgemental (but it can be beneficial), ask yourself questions like:โฃ
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โ€œ๐˜‹๐˜ฐ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ถ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ ๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ force?โ€โฃ
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โ€œ๐˜‹๐˜ฐ ๐˜ ๐˜ซ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ?โ€โฃ
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โ€œ๐˜ž๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ…โ€โฃ
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โ€œ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฎ & ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜น๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ?โ€โฃ

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Lucy Upton RD – Dietetic Lead